Women | Men |
Time as the enemy | Time as a resource |
Not enough time to work and the responsibility of the family | Not very concerned with balancing the responsibility |
Overwhelmed, stressed and guilty | Stressed |
Guilty when you say "no" | Don’t have time to do everything |
Need to do most things perfectly | Don’t have time to do everything |
Perfectionist: Work, home, car, closets, children, garage
5 biggest time wasters: Telephone, Email, Communication, Meetings, Organization
Embrace vs. Tackle
Comprehend | Football Play |
Hug | Attack |
Adopt | Aggress |
Inclusion | Lineman |
Take a break
· Break away physically for give minutes
· Break away emotionally for five minutes
· Positive action statements
· Write down priorities
· Use month-at-a-glance calendar
Find your peak time!
Circadian Rhythm
Physical cycle takes 23 days to complete and controls energy, coordination and resistance to change, and other physical points.
Emotional cycle is 28 days and tied to creativity, mental health and temperament.
Intellectual cycle takes 33 days to complete and regulates memory, alertness and other intellectual pursuits.
Goals/Intentions:
· Subconscious mind believes whatever you think to be true
· Change internal perception/talk
· Positive attracts positive
· Negative attracts negative
Creating more energy
· Understand the need for control
o Fear: will lose job, professional standing, family, home
o Guilt: unreasonable demands of not being perfect, not being able to do everything
· Ask for help
o Fear of seeming incompetent
o The dislike of infringing on other’s time
o Fear of neglect
o The belief that a job requires specific knowledge and experience
o Ego involvement with the task
· Delegate
o No man is an island and no woman can do it all herself
o Critical for growth, success and sanity
· Procrastination => stress
· Stress => Burn-out
· Burn-out => Depression
Nurturing you
· Treat yourself to a Saturday salon day
· Cuddle up with a good book & herbal tea
· Go out with a fun friend for the evening
· Take a relaxing bath with candles
· Spend an entire weekend having fun
· Save $10/week for six months and take a trip
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